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Voices
of Orthodox
Women
FOR ELDERS ONLY
by
Sylvia Dooling
I can’t tell you how often I hear elders say, "I can’t speak in presbytery.
I’m only an elder. The pastors have all the power anyway."
WRONG!
G-6.0302 of our Book of Order states that “when elected commissioners
to higher governing bodies, elders participate and vote with the same
authority as ministers of the Word and Sacrament.” It is clear.
We elders bear responsibility along with pastors to govern and minister
within the PC(USA). Thus, there is no reason why pastors should dominate
the floor of presbytery.
So if you have the opportunity this year to be a commissioner from your
session to presbytery, ACCEPT THE OFFER!
Lay aside any other plans, unless you’re sick or someone close to you has
died, and make every effort to get active in the work of your presbytery.
Right now, and over the next several months, presbyteries are voting
on amendments to the Constitution that were brought forward by the 213th
General Assembly. These amendments are important. You need
to understand them, and to be present in order to speak and vote on them.
Here are some tips to help you as you accept the challenge and join
the elder’s fellowship of the sweaty palms.
1. Begin with prayer. Being a commissioner to presbytery
is work that God has placed before you as an ordained officer of the church.
Ask for wisdom, understanding, and the ability to complete the work God
and your session have set before you.
2. Do your homework. Before presbytery meets, each commissioner should
receive a packet of material that will include a booklet entitled Proposed
Amendments to the Constitution of the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A).
Read the material, and if you have questions, call your pastor. If
s/he is unable to answer your questions, ask around — there may be
a network of pastors and elders meeting together within the bounds of your
presbytery who share your concerns. A network is a wonderful way
to connect with others, and to discuss common concerns. They would
love to include you. These networks are a rich resource.
3. Decide on one amendment that you would like to speak about.
This year, there are eight.
4. Think about one point that you would like to make about the amendment
to which you have chosen to speak. Making a single point allows the
other commissioners to remember what you’ve said.
5. Most presbyteries allow 2 minutes per speech, alternating pro and
con.
6. Write down exactly what you’d like to say. Allow yourself the
freedom to say what you believe is the focus of your concern. Don’t
be afraid to make it personal. Speak about what you know.
7. Time yourself with a stopwatch.
8. Now be brutal. Your speech is probably too long. Begin
to edit all that is extraneous. Read it until you are comfortable
that you can make your point in 2 minutes or less. If it’s exactly
2 minutes long, do some more editing. You want to be sure that you
will not be interrupted and told that your time is up. After all
the effort that you’ve put into this project, you want to make sure you
are able to make your point.
9. Make sure that within the 2-minute time period you include, “Mr./Madame
Moderator, my name is _____, and I’m an elder from ________ church.” The
last thing you should say before you sit down is, “please vote no/yes on
Amendment __________.”
10. Now, put your speech aside for a while. This means starting
your preparations long before the date of the presbytery meeting. Let it
sit for a couple of days, then go back and make sure you have said exactly
what you intend to say.
11. Practice, practice, practice. It’s fine to read your speech.
But practice it enough be able to read it in a natural, clear, and unaffected
tone.
12. Read your speech to a friend or a family member who you trust and
who will be helpful with their feedback.
13. Leave some time before you travel to presbytery for prayer.
God has promised to supply all your needs — including the strength to stand
and speak.
14. Make every effort to arrive at presbytery on time, and plan to stay
until the gavel drops at the conclusion of business. It is important to
experience every part of the meeting and to commit yourself to all the
presbytery’s business — even those parts that you aren’t too interested
in.
15. When it is time for speeches on the issue to which you’ve chosen
to speak, move immediately to the appropriate microphone. Do not
hesitate. You’ve put time and effort into preparing your speech.
Now, you want to be able to present it.
16. When it’s your turn to speak, take a deep breath, speak into the
microphone, and address your remarks directly to the Moderator.
When the vote has been taken and the ballots have been tallied,
your argument may have won or lost. But remember, God has not called
you to “win.” God has called you to be obedient and faithful. Your
brothers and sisters in presbytery feel just as strongly as you do about
the position they have taken. So, it is important to find honest
ways to be loving and kind to one another, because we all stand together
at the foot of the cross, in humility, asking for God’s will to be accomplished
in every matter. And with the apostle Paul, “we know that all things
work together for good for those who love God, who are called according
to his purpose.” We can be confident, therefore, that God has used
us and that he will continue to use us in the up building of His church.
Now that you’ve had the experience of speaking before presbytery, commit
yourself to becoming involved in other ways in the life of the church beyond
your congregation. Make it known to your presbytery’s Nominating
Committee that you’re willing to serve on a committee, or ask your session
or pastor to submit your name. Be willing to serve as a commissioner
for a year. There’s much to learn. And perhaps one day, God
willing, you will have the opportunity to serve your presbytery as a commissioner
to the General Assembly.
But for now, work on writing that speech!
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